The Guardians

Red: the colour of Authority
and Stability

40-45% of population

We serve as the world's accountants, police officers and supervisors. We prefer facts to theories and closure to flexibility. We're upholders of standards and joiners of groups dedicated to keeping things just as they are. We like to see everything running smoothly – and people behaving appropriately.

Focuses on: rules
Trusts: authority
Prizes: gratitude
As partner: help-mate
As parent: responsible
As leader: stabilising
Likes: structure and rules
Dislikes: change, carelessness
Dreams of: receiving his or her just rewards

Follow the links below to learn
about the four Guardian personality types.

 

The Artisans

Yellow: the colour of Adventure
and Artistry

30-40% of population

We are the world's hands-on workers, artists, racing drivers and party animals. Action-oriented and sensation-seeking, we prefer facts to theories and flexibility to closure. But, hey, we're pretty smart in practical ways, we're fast learners – and we get better as we go along. We want to have fun and make a splash. We live life to the full, one day at a time.

Focuses on: here and now
Trusts: impulse
Prizes: freedom
As partner: play-mate
As parent: creative
As leader: troubleshooting
Likes: making an impact
Dislikes: inaction, formalities
Dreams of: mastering action skills

Follow the links below to learn
about the four Artisan personality types.

 

The Intellects

Blue: the colour of Thought, Logic and Perception

5-7% of population

We are the world's forensic detectives, system builders, mad scientists and nerds. We prefer to discover patterns than deal with boring details. And we are guided by logic and reason rather than emotion or impulse. Strategy is our thing. Ingenious, independent and strong-willed, we are drawn to investigating and inventing, planning and marshalling.

Focuses on: problem-solving
Trusts: logic
Prizes: knowledge
As partner: mind-mate
As parent: individualising
As leader: strategic
Likes: new ideas and insights
Dislikes: routine, pomposity
Dreams of: understanding how the world works

Follow the links below to learn
about the four Intellect personality types.

 

The Idealists

Purple: colour of Intuition and the Transcendent

5-7% of population

We are the world's inspirers, prophets and Jedi Masters. While others may obsess about doing things the right way, we ask: 'Are we doing the right things?'. We just can't help looking ahead into the future, and searching for the deeper patterns beneath the everyday details. As creative nurturers, our life is a journey towards meaning in relationships and knowledge.

Focuses on: the future
Trusts: intuition
Prizes: deep relationships
As partner: soul-mate
As parent: nurturing
As leader: inspirational
Likes: harmony, imagination
Dislikes: conflict, insensitivity
Dreams of: finding meaning, attaining wisdom

Follow the links below to learn
about the four Idealist personality types.

 

The MBTI® and your Cohabitation Agreement

Your Cohabitation Agreement sets out your shared vision of your life together in a legal document.

Ensure your Cohabitation Agreement is based on a solid foundation of open and honest sharing of all relevant information by:

Each completing an official MBTI® personality assessment.

Attaching your two MBTI® personality reports as exhibits to your Cohabitation Agreement.

Taking the MBTI® demonstrates that you have each taken the time to understand your personalities and value your differences.

Completing the MBTI® also shows that you are entering into your Cohabitation Agreement with your hearts and your eyes wide open.

 

 

4.1 Personality and Values

4.1.1 [Romeo] and [Juliet] recognise that an understanding of self, as it is formed by nature and shaped by circumstances, is the foundation to the understanding of others.
4.1.2 [Romeo] and [Juliet], aided by insights from the Myers-Briggs type Inventory (MBTI), have each sought to discover their personality preferences and understand how their personality preferences affect their interactions as a couple. This they have done to understand and value each other's gifts, learn how to give and receive appreciation and love, and discover, as they advance through successive life stages, how each can best contribute to the personal growth and development of the other.
4.1.3 [Romeo] and [Juliet] have each completed the online MBTI® Complete process and obtained their results in a personalised Interpretive Report - Form M (B), copies of which are attached to this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.
4.1.4 [Romeo] and [Juliet] in consultation with a certified MBTI practitioner, have each additionally obtained a personalised Interpretive Report - Form Q (B), copies of which are attached to this Agreement as part of Exhibit Set C.